Sorry man, but I don't think they'd be that surprised by the turn out in other states. As you know, Fates hasn't been very active with releases lately. It's not practical for them to do a full tour in the US. Are you aware of the size of the bars they played in Texas recently? Sometimes you have to suck it up and accept that [air] travel is required--it's the only way I EVER get to see any band I like. Save your vacation days if you really have to drive, or save a couple hundred for a plane ticket which might be cheaper with the current cost of gas. It's what most people in our situation who really love a band have to do--and really, so many underground bands tour Florida that you sound spoiled to someone like me who lives in Arkansas, of all places...
If you could've driven to the May 5 show with friends had you not moved from wherever you lived before, you could probably fly to the show with just the clothes on your back for $200-500 from Florida ($240 for round trip coach from Orlando, for example) and be back Sunday afternoon like I will do from my understandably neglected state. If you've got dependents and no one to help out for a night, then driving with friends probably wouldn't have been an option even if you lived closer still. If sleep is required, you're too old
